Children and Divorce
Making It Less Painful for your Children While Going Through the Divorce:
A Few Basic Guidelines
- Listen
- Tell them why you're divorcing
- Assure them it is not their fault
- Try to minimize changes
- Let them be a child
- Keep promises
- Be a good role model
- Maintain routines
- Get outside help for coaching
Address Anger Constructively
Identify & Respond to Fears
Know Your Resources
Meaning of Shared Parenting - Child Custody
Both Parents:
- Retain full parental rights and responsibilities
- Have joint legal custody
- Want healthy relationship with children
Parenting Class Requirements
In some states, an example is Florida, parents must attend a 4 hour minimum Children & Family Services approved parenting class. This class is to educate, train, and assist them in regards to consequences of divorce on parents and children. The state of Florida offers an online class.
If you have any questions regarding your child and divorce, call us -
(239) 461-0101.
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